No.
If she has been exposed to me, long enough for me to fall for her, and she just doesn’t care, I’m not doing that shit. I got too much on the table for life, things I’m having to do, and it isn’t selfishness, the stuff sucks the life out if me, but needs done. I’m not jeapordizing it for a woman so selfish or deeply unimpressed with me she won’t meet me half way. I can make a lot of sacrifices the average man can’t make for a woman, but I’m not able to give it all, I’m a slave to much higher concerns.
Say your a woman, and you just met someone who is trying to become a diplomat, a ambassador. Money isn’t a object for him, but he is a slave to diplomacy, including international travel, playing a part. A woman expecting that he drops everything, moves to her country, that her conduct is her business and not his… not a wise choice for a ambassador. If she doesn’t soon start showing interest to him, or pulling stunts like this, she’s off the list of potential mates.
I’m into philosophy, and the eye if the needle is much harder and higher for me than any ambassador. I can’t go about giving delusional woman used to being the center of the universe the impression I’m willing to become a mere satellite to their ego. Philosophy is a incredibly high stakes game. Some aspects can be done anywhere in any condition.
If you plopped me in Florida, and told me a woman I utterly desired was in Alaska, I would literally walk the whole way. I have a good idea of that distance, what that asks of me. But upon arriving in anchorage, skin and bones months later, I get to the agreed upon rendezvous, and I get a note “can’t make it, I’ll be at this restaurant tomorrow at 6” get there, another cancellation, with another note, repeated yet again… honestly, at that point, short of her stopping a nuclear bomb going off cause that’s what she does, I’m walking my ass back to Florida, and I don’t care if she drives her ass after me and pleads, I’m not coming hack, rather be walking across the Yukon than put up with that shit. Shows how deeply devalued I am, and how unpredictable and selfish she will be in the future.
A woman can be had in life, but not at the risk of losing everything. If your family is captured by terrorists, I will go kill those terrorists. If I gotta give up on everything by constant pampering and enslavement to superficial whims, such a woman is useless, I don’t care how she makes me feel. I’d rather dedicate myself to saving lives than wasting it on the shallow ego of a foolish woman.