WendyDarling wrote:front hole
A Shieldmaiden wrote:This is a very typical error in thinking, confusing feelings with realities.
The truth is that reality is what it is, nothing more, nothing less.
Gloominary wrote:I never claimed to have seen statistics proving faxuwomen sexually exploit real women more than real women do in restrooms
also Gloominary wrote:in all likelihood, they are.
Gloominary wrote:The words man and woman don't belong to the state
Gloominary wrote:Since time immemorial, man and woman referred to ones biology
Gloominary wrote:I'd rather invent new words to describe such people
Gloominary wrote:don't treat people according to what and who they are, treat people according to what and who they wished they were
Some realities are intersubjective, so that if everyone agrees that X is the case, it becomes the case.........
The article is misleading, and it's a lot less crazy in the sex guide itself. For example, they have a section called "Safe penetrative sex in a front hole, vagina, or anus", showing that "front-hole" isn't used as a gender-neutral replacement for "vagina", but as a distinct orifice that one can engage with sexually.
And really, if you insist that post-op transsexuals aren't women, you should be all about this idea. The people cited in the article as outraged were pro-trans people who were offended that "front-hole" marginalizes and dehumanizes trans-women.
Personally, I'm most upset that every sex-related word in that article uses a special character in place of a letter (e.g. x in "sex", v in "vagina", n in "genitals"). I guess that's to make searching for it harder? Weird.
Some realities are intersubjective, so that if everyone agrees that X is the case, it becomes the case. Money, language, laws, religion, they are real phenomena whose reality is entirely dependent on shared narratives. The social aspects of gender are that way too, what makes a woman a woman socially is not her genitals or her genes, it's whether or not there is intersubjective agreement that she's a woman.
Please tell me you see the tension between acknowledging that you have no knowledge of the statistics and then immediately talking about how likely something is.
1) There's been a recognition of people who don't fit in the male/female binary for thousands of years of recorded history.
2) Biological sex is not binary.
3) For a lot of our history, we didn't really know much about biology. No one knew anything about genes or hormones or even much about organs. So it isn't true that what you mean when you say "man" and "woman" is what people have meant by those words (or their translations) since time immemorial. The underlying concepts have shifted through history. When no one knew about genes and hormones, the concept of man and woman did not include genes and hormones. Now we have different concepts, and we're using the same words.
Ultimately you're making a linguistic argument, not an ontological one. Man means something for you that it doesn't mean for a trans-man, right? When you say "you aren't a man", and he says "I am a man", you aren't actually disagreeing. You're equivocating on the word "man". For him, the definition is mostly social, and for you it's mostly genetics and genital-shape.
On that note, as an aside, it's interesting that you keep using "doctor" and "lawyer" as inviolable, when those words too have drifted over time. Not too long ago (and in many places even now), both words had the necessary implication of maleness, and a woman who said she wanted to be a doctor or lawyer might have been accused of "fantasy role play taken to ridiculous, unprecedented lengths".
Lots of gender studies professors have tried, but that's not really how language works. Some cultures do have alternative words; Thai has several. And arguably "trans-man" and "trans-woman" are already there in English.
But I think just saying "man" instead of "trans-man" is legitimate, where 1) the distinction is irrelevant in most social interactions, and 2) we live in a society where random internet people go on unprovoked rants about how readily that will violently attack people who mislead them about the shape of their genitals.
I think it's rather that some part of who they are is defined by who they choose to be.
You keep talking about "delusion", but consider what I said above about equivocation. Drill down into what that alleged delusion entails. A transman says he's a man, you say he isn't. You say, "But you have XX chromosomes." He says yes. You say, "But you have a womb and a vagina and can get pregnant." He says yes. You say, "So you're a woman!" He says no. He says, "But I have a beard." You say yes. He says, "But I wear cargo pants and that mom got uncomfortable when I smiled at her kid." You say yes. He says, "So I'm a man!" You say no.
There's no delusion in this exchange, he's just using the word to point to a different concept.
Gloominary wrote:We've gone from tolerating minorities, which's what I'm in favor of, to allowing them to impose their language and reality upon us.
When will the madness end?
Carleas wrote:Does it need to be? I once had a friend who was afraid of balloons, but that doesn't tell us very much about balloons.
Gloominary wrote:Many or most trans don't want people to know their actual sex, because if they did, many or most people wouldn't treat them like their coveted sex, which's what trans wants.
For trans, being treated like their coveted sex, makes them feel more like their coveted sex, which's their ultimate objective.
MagsJ wrote:Gloominary wrote:Many or most trans don't want people to know their actual sex, because if they did, many or most people wouldn't treat them like their coveted sex, which's what trans wants.
For trans, being treated like their coveted sex, makes them feel more like their coveted sex, which's their ultimate objective.
Where I live, I have had many effeminate males smiling at me and eyeing me up, but their slim frame and wide hip belied their true-born gender, and nothing progressed beyond that first glance. They had wider hips than me, and they want me to play the subservient female role? Really!
Some don't mind faux, but the many do, so how would and does this pan out in court?
Thanathots wrote:Gloominary wrote:We've gone from tolerating minorities, which's what I'm in favor of, to allowing them to impose their language and reality upon us.
When will the madness end?
LOL
And you don't see the connection between the two? Doors and walls in a house, and borders in a nation, exist for the same purpose - to keep foreign elements out.
If we disregard subversive, leftist brainwashing, there's no reason to even tolerate the "minorities".
Reality is about imposition, of course they will try to impose, if we don't.
You seem to have very fundamental misconceptions about how reality works.
A Shieldmaiden wrote:As far as I am concerned [intersubjective reality] equates to wishful thinking and that does not determine the truth
Gloominary wrote:When, whatever you want to call them, social constructs are used affectively, they help put us more in tune with both ourselves, and nature, with both our needs, and how to satisfy them, but when they're used ineffectively, as is the case with trans, they obscure them.
Gloominary wrote:I'm making an inference, I'm using what I'm sure of
Gloominary wrote:But did most civilizations throughout history refer to and mostly think of trans as the opposite sex, or did they invent new linguistic and conceptual categories for them?
Gloominary wrote:I'm trying to be fair, I'm acknowledging that men and women can have physical, neurological and psychological secondary sex characteristics that don't align with their genitals and chromosomes
Gloominary wrote:It is how language works, 2 3rds of the English language was invented by linguists borrowing from French, Latin and Greek, and from combining and recombining existing words to make new ones.
Gloominary wrote:Why not just say to someone before you sleep with them: oh by the way, I don't actually have the genitals I appear to?
Gloominary wrote:There is so much more to it than that, anatomically, neurologically and psychologically that trans doesn't have, and that trans never will have, for the reasons already given in this thread, and many more.
Gloominary wrote:Well, I'm off to present myself as...
MagsJ wrote:Would that hold up in any court case, even? assault by balloon?
WendyDarling wrote:I went and watched the full Dr. Drew's show segment...feelings over reality. Ben Shapiro was spot on. Talk about liberal hate in general and specifically a threat of placing Ben in an ambulance...definitely a female thing done by Zoey the trans-woman. Women often threaten to put men in ambulances since it would be a cinch to do with their buffness.
WendyDarling wrote:Conservatives are more tolerant and rational than liberals.
WendyDarling wrote:[I]s Rachel Dolezal black
Gloominary wrote:I am acknowledging men can occasionally have some feminine traits that aren't just an act and vice versa.
WendyDarling wrote:Trans people play a very dangerous game when they are not honest from the get-go.
Carleas wrote:MagsJ wrote:Would that hold up in any court case, even? assault by balloon?
Who's talking about assault? I thought we were just trading tales of unjustified fears.
MagsJ wrote:Are fears ever unjustifiable? ...
..a pattern of criminal activity is obviously a pattern not to be ignored
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