Typical mentality, the man sets up a system that gives the woman no choice, then claims heroism.
I don't claim heroism but yes, I am all for restriction of choice. Women are chaotic entities, their choice needs to be restricted by an agent of order (man) for the sake of both of them but moreso for the sake of their children and society.
You're definitely a feminist whether you claim to be one or not. You have been taught by feminists to value women according to masculine standards, and when women fail to live up to them you see it as a problem to be fixed. You've been taught to hate and reject your own femininity.
The same way Bruce Jenner has grown to hate and reject his masculinity:

Of course, men can never be as womanly as women, nor can women ever be as manly as men. But freaks will continue to try, and fail, then blame everything else but themselves and their own limitations.
Yeah, Bruce Jenner might PRETEND he is a woman, and he might even be called woman of the year by some retarded magazine, doesn't change what he really is - a perverted faggot. Just like some woman might try to be a man, might even succeed in convincing some other clueless retards into thinking she really is one, but it doesn't make her one.
The masculinization of women and feminization of men is dysfunctional and doesn't accomplish anything good.