by Magnus Anderson » Sun Nov 21, 2021 3:37 am
If you have a goal and you want to attain it, you have to do whatever is necessary to do. If that involves limiting certain things, as is often the case, then that's what you should do. If you want to move from A to B, you have to make sure that nothing makes it more difficult than it's necessary for you to reach your destination (whether that's something from within, such as your impulses, or something from without, such as other people and/or things.)
Of course, people can be fooled into thinking they shouldn't ban certain things, most commonly by appealing to their vanity; but that doesn't change the reality of their situation. Obviously, if it's necessary to ban certain things in order to attain your goals, that means your can't attain your goals without banning certain things. Others might say that's a sign of weakness (in the sense that you don't have the capacity to attain your goals while being distracted) and you might be compelled to hide it from others by not banning whatever or whoever you wanted to ban. And though it's true that such a thing is a weakness (at least in some sense of the word), it's usually neither true that 1) there are people who are capable of completing such a task, nor that 2) you shouldn't fight distractions.
Merely in order to sleep well, you have to make sure that your bedroom is 1) dark (all lights turned off, TV switched off, etc), and 2) quiet (your TV, radio and computer must be all switched off, there must be no people around you making noise, etc.) Of course, you can sleep with your lights on and with your neighbours having a really loud party -- it's not like you can't sleep at all -- but the quality of such a sleep would be pretty low. You can call it weakness all you want but you can't deny it's more or less a universal one; and sleeping in a noisy environment will merely be a handicap you're imposing on yourself for the purpose of maintaing positive self-image (in your own eyes at least.)
And the same goes for participating in Internet discussions. People come here with a certain goal in mind, and if it's too difficult to attain, they will simply leave (by going to another forum or by giving up on the Internet as a medium of social interaction.) Some people don't because they end up forgetting why they came here in the first place which is a direct consequence of being distracted (and thus a reason to fight distractions.) Most commonly, they become addicted to arguing / polemics / fighting. It becomes all about enacting a revenge on those who have harmed you in the past (one way or another) and those who are similar to them and thus perceived as potentially harmful. And though it's true that different people come here for different reasons, philosophy forums are supposed to be places where philosophical arguments can be exchanged and people can benefit from each other's insights. It's not a place where people come to personally attack those they dislike. It's also not a place for propagandists. It's not even a place for bloggers (those who want to share their insights and attract certain audience but who are not interested in any kind of interaction other than perhaps the one that exists between celebrities and their fans) nor chit-chatters (those who like to talk about their amazing and often even banal experiences from their past.) So anything that stifles philosophical learning should be fought with a force of forum software. If I'm discussing something with someone and someone else pops in to tell us that my interlocutor is an idiot, I have absolutely no reason to tolerate that person. He's personally attacking my interlocutor, and since we all know how distracting personal attacks are, he's making it difficult for me to talk to the other guy. He's also making it difficult for others to read our exchange.