Meno,
Love has lots of components:
Protection, concern, conscientious,, freedom, compromise. Etc...
Trust me when I say this: When the love leaves... it’s vicious out there. You really have to think about what you torment and how and why. Depending on how you do this, depends on how many defenders you have. If someone fucks with certain souls, it’s an all-out war...
Like the close of the last star wars where all the Sith and all the Jedi battled it out just between two people.
These things are weighed by spirits