Female is the sex - specialized reproductive role - which acts as an agency of nature, filtering out unfit genes and memes.
This is why they become a target for male resentment when the absence of Paternalism returns females to their original natural role.
Males filtered out of the gene pool feel unjustifiably wronged.
Women do not understand how their judgment words - its intuitive - and they can be trained to filter out using memetic criteria, despite their genetic inclinations, producing, ni them a sense of confusion - loss of identity.
Reproduction depends on pretences. Males pretending to be more than what they are, and females pretending to do so, as well, so as to attract more males, more suitors.
Sex is a game of pretences, and females have evolved the ability to detect them.
Sex is aggressive, since it involves a penetration which requires the inhibition of the females fight/flight mechanism.
Similarly, for sperm to survive until they reach the ovum, and for the embryo to not be rejected as a alien element, the female has evolved self-deceiving chemical mechanisms to trick her own autoimmune systems.
This is mirrored in how her mind is placated and calmed, to permit the approach and intrusive penetration of an other organism - the male. She self-deceives, internally and externally, so as to permit the reproductive process to proceed successfully.
Lust is a form of chemical intoxication; love is a sophistication of it permitting tolerance and bonding.
A biochemical mechanism to deal with already evolved survival mechanisms.