You are not wrong. Theo Van Gogh was one very rare good Dutch filmmaker.
I do recommend most of his work, for that matter. Last thing I watched was this miniseries called Medea. It exists English subtitled. All of his work is sufficiently dark and psychologically understanding. He was a very good romantic cynic.
Another interesting movie of his is about the murder of Pim Fortuyn, Netherlands would be PM, right before the elections. Its called 06/05, after the date of the murder. Stars the same girl, Tara Elders, as also appears in Medea, pretty girl who was in my sisters class and always walked the halls scantily dressed with a posse of girls around her. Theo Van Gogh doubtlessly slept with her a lot, as it was that kind of scene. A lot of cocaine, good wine, art and political chest thumping.