by Del Ivers » Tue Apr 09, 2019 6:00 pm
If many people go to a party, and afterwards you ask some of them how it went, some will say it was a good party and others will say it was terrible.
Personally, I had my own disagreements with Paul now and then. I expressed them civilly, always remembering that getting angry at what amounts to text on a screen was perhaps better reserved for the news of the day, politics and so on. Plenty there to get angry at even to this day.
I do not know of your particular incidents or whether it was Paul, Postmodern Beatnik or some other moderator whom you had, and apparently still have, a gripe with. But whichever, the fact remains that it was nothing more than an online forum where the majority of participants remained anonymous with nicknames. Anonymity is a two-way street. One way you're the critic, the other way you're the criticized. Same street. If I do not know who you really are, and you don't know I really am, then why get upset about the dialogue? Nonetheless, you are entitled to feel whichever way you want.
There were some good discussions on PF and it was evident that many others enjoyed them since the venue skyrocketed to 50,000 members. I do not know the timeline of your grievances but remember that PF went through some changes especially with the new owners. From what I've gathered from bits here and there things began to deteriorate with them.
Anyway, that was a long time ago, at least in my participation. In a galaxy, far, far away.
I will ask Paul about your particular criticisms. But you know what? Whether him, all of you, or me, we all move on, even from those things that are far more consequential than a forum where one will probably never know the real identity of others. And even if you did know the real identities, chances are that in a person to person conversation with them all the nuances and understanding about what was being said would make sense and resolution an easy attainment. Flatland or 3D, it's one's call.
You do not wish to participate? That's quite all right. I wish you well.
Thank You
Daniel V.