Tab wrote:Lol, I think a 10 in functionality will mean you rule the world. Yeah, I saw this gif. and fell in love with it. I didn't want to go break the guy's heart by just posting it in a reply, an act I respect myself for lol, 10 years ago I'd have just stormed in. Age, sometimes a good thing. Or raising children maybe. Forbearance, me..? Who'd a thunk it.
Maybe ruling the world is my secret goal, in aiming to be a 10.
Well-done you, in being tactful.. something the receiver of your tact does not himself exhibit, or even the smallest ounce of thoughtfulness towards others, and still he doesn’t learn off others when shown a better way. Too far gone, perhaps? never to return to centre.
But still, wow. Anyway, I agree on avoiding people with negative mind-sets, something I've only recently learned to do. Before I was always driven to try and help them. Took a long time to realise they really don't want help, just to suck you dry. Just the way they are wired, don't even think it's a conscious choice on their part half the time.
Self-preservation of mind, and subsequently body, Baby!
I don’t think you can help those that are unable to help themselves.. I’ve had a few friends who have ended up in a negative circular existence, and had to let them go, for my own sanity’s sake.. acquaintances are now much more preferable to friends, as there’s no expectation of you.