by zinnat » Sun Dec 13, 2020 8:38 am
Let us talk a bit about more what difficulties one may face during this initial phase of meditation.
First of all, i have to remind readers again that they have to be in a pose whatever they feel most comfortable and start repeating mantra they want to choose. Then, they have to keep focus on the sound of that repetition. Two conditions are very important here and should be maintained. First, after taking their desired pose, no body part should not move at all, not even the tip of the fingers. And second, the eyes should remain closed as long as they are meditating. Violation of either of these conditions will nullify their effort. Here, it is a quite natural question to come in one's mind why are these conditions so important in the first place!
The reason for not moving the body is required because our consciousness is spread throughout the whole body with the help of the mind. And, in order to achieve anything meaningful through meditation, we have to withdraw all of out mind and consciousness from the whole body back to the mind. But, if we keep moving parts of out body, both of mind and consciousness will keep focussing on those moving parts and never able to concentrate fully back to the mind. The same is with the eyes. The eyes are default centres for the mind so as long they are open, the mind has no choice but to focus on what is seen by the eyes. So, we have to shut down that outlet of distraction too.
A very important tip which i have forgotten to mention, may help in a very big way. When you choose a mantra and start repeating it, try to synchronize it with your breath. Means, adjust the wordings or time taken in repeating the mantra in such a away by using some pause here and there so that you can repeat the mantra one time exactly in one cycle of your breath. This can help a lot. the reason for this is that if we sync the times of manta and one breath and keep doing it sufficient time, sooner or later the stage will come when repeating the mantra in the mind will become a default process when ever you sit alone.
If anyone owns any pets, especially dogs, will understand what i am suggesting. How we train dogs, like let them understand/remember their name! The easiest way to do this is to give them something to eat with calling their chosen name. And, after some time, the dog starts responding to their names even without giving them food. What happens is that as both actions of receiving food and hearing the name happens simultaneously, their mind makes some sort of connection between those and starts responding in the same way even at the absence on one. Another common such example is of smokers smoking cigarette while going to toilet. Apparently, there is no medical reasoning for nicotine in having bowel movements, but as most smokers use to smoke at toilets, so their mind and body make some sort of connection between smoking and having bowel movements. And, most smokers cannot have bowel movements without smoking. I myself is an example of that. There are many other such examples too.
So, we can use this phenomenon to help in our meditation. If we can somehow breathe and repeat the mantras in complete sync for long enough, the stage will come when only focus on breathing will manifest the repetition of mantras automatically. This may look impossible to some but it is true. I know it from my personal experience. As i am doing it since last 30 years, so now even closing the eyes is enough for me. As soon as i close my eyes, the repetition of the mantra start in my mind. The focus on the breath has also been bypassed now. Now, i do not even need to lie down straight. Whether i am in the bed, in the train, in the car or anywhere else, as soon as i close my eyes, the repetition automatically starts without much effort from me. My mind knows that he has to do this now.
There are some more points which i will cover in the next post.
with love,
sanjay