Oh no, I haven’t discounted St Lucia… I just love snowboarding in the Alps, and I’ve never been to Tibet or Nepal, and Nepal is neighbour to my other home… India.
I’m left a bit traumatised every time I come back from St Lucia, as you’ve got to leave behind those you’ve bonded with… which is hardest with the youngers, and they expect to see you again soon, but that doesn’t always happen, and a goodbye hug becomes even the more meaningful.
Maybe it’s the same as with me, with going back to Hungary, thinking, change will do me good does not measure with how changed I have become. Most I knew there when young are no longer there.
They did not have to change, they simply added on.They are overly sensitive as to who they are, while I I had been desensitized in some ways
I can’t blame them, though. Even if I could.
But that is not in that sense that I meant , going back.
That is all, my narcissism w/o) let out of the bag.
Why overly sensitive as to who they are? a historical causation?
We do have a few things in common, fellow narcissist… spanning continents being one of them.
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Personally, sensitivity is caused by inordinate pretension of a past mindset, that is not in synch with present reality.
In fact , I have given up on becoming totally ‘American’ , nor of losing all stran ds which tie me to the old country.
1st generation immigrants have to go through this. Are You first generation,
At any rate, at times, change is unavoidable, and hyperbole serves only so far.
That’s the best I can express it.
This is not a test.