I am narcissistic because I do not think there are hundreds or millions of emotions
There are really ten billion because I experience one of them every time it snows
You can only have sex with women over 60 but cannot actually explain why this is so
You know your level of evolution bothers me even though it does not bother me at all
These threads of yours are wonderful journeys into how your mind operates and this one is no exception
you gotta understand man, i’m constantly struggling with maintaining a delicate balance between pity and contempt for a lot of people at these forums. there’s a part of me which won’t accept the excuse that these people can’t help what they believe - that they cannot be responsible for their confusions and attitudes toward the world, or how incredibly entrenched they are in what might even pass as legitimate neurosis. but that part of me doesn’t win over that other part which is capable of being compassionate, and so what i am left with is tremendous frustration; knowing that i am powerless to help them… or rather change the things that made them the way they are. take for example these two recent shooters. young kids who’s minds have been poisoned by all that radical right-wing conspiracy shit that’s allowed to be published on the internet. in this case i wouldn’t be able to say ‘they should know better’, because they don’t have the intellectual and/or philosophical tools to understand or be critical of what their reading. so i have to sit and watch this shit happen without being able to strike at the real cause and prevent it. now this is analogous to what’s going on with a lot of people at these forums (including you). what happens is, people’s natural dispositions to be embittered by a series of otherwise trivial problems builds up over time, then becomes reinforced by the philosophy they’re reading; they find something telling them they are justified in how they feel (written by people as confused as they are), and a momentum is gained that is almost unstoppable.
now imagine for a moment that you knew there was no substance in what they believed and read, and that you were totally powerless to reverse the effects this nonsense was having on them. meanwhile you have to listen to all the huffing and puffing… all the noise of their ranting and raving. are you gonna tell me you wouldn’t feel just a little contempt or disgust for these people? even granting that they can’t know any better. of course you would, dude. the overwhelming frustration you felt would have to find an outlet. you can’t help them, you can’t shut em down, and you can’t prevent the forces that make them what they are. so what’s left? i’ll tell you. when your compassion and contempt come into collision, a third attitude is generated which allows you a healthy way to express yourself in such company without really hurting anyone (because remember, they can’t help it). and that attitude is probably best described as ‘schadenfreude’. hence what you perceive as ‘torment’. playfully picking and poking at something you both pity and have compassion for. it’s a difficult balance to maintain, bro, so don’t think this is easy.
If you actually read my last essay, you’d know why I need a woman to be at least 60.
When I state, “if anyone’s consent is being violated, you’re in the wrong place”
This is a radical way to wake people out of their walking slumbers. You have displayed nothing of this magnitude in your posting history.
You are a parasite to doing the actual existential work of the species.
Everything you said about me is you …
You’re not doing any work
omg you’ve got to be kidding me. did i really just read that? there’s nothing wrong with having an attraction to MILFs, but when you start becoming attracted to GILFs (grandmothers), you need to check your head, bro. when instead of singing ballads and sonnets to the girl you love, you have to ask her to take your teeth out, something is terribly wrong.
It’s not based on attraction. It’s whether the relationship is a no means yes relationship or not.
Something you know and care very little about
You’re part of the problem, not part of the solution… you have to be spoon fed through your whole life, YOU DON’T DO ANY WORK!!!
Hey but yo, dice I throw is thorough like thoreau, you know? I don’t believe in euthanasia, only the youth in asia.
Peece.
I’m out.
One must remember that Ecmandu is only really having a conversation with himself in threads like this
I have no idea how seriously he actually takes what he says here but if he does then he is the only one
One must remember that surreptitious and promethean have done nothing but troll a non troll thread as hard as they could, in a manner of 100% projection.
Trolling is both bad etiquette and a waste of energy and which is why I never indulge in it not even with someone like you man
You dont get trolled anyway but instead are called out on your nonsense which is simply the same stuff repeated ad infinitum
That’s interesting, because, I’m the only one who’s correct on these boards:
Nobody wants their consent violated.
This is so radical that you can’t absorb it, and just bury your head in the sand.
The reason you can’t handle it is because of its implications: everyone on earth is having their consent violated: which is a disproof of a good god, actually a disproof of a good teacher before me.
Instead of just being a man about it and working solution mode, you just scoff in fear.
I actually think this statement of yours is true - with the single obvious exception of masochists who would most definitely want their consent violated
But it is when you use it as a reason not to have sex with a woman that it makes zero sense and I am very sceptical of your claim to be a hyper empath
Especially when said woman wants you to have sex with her so your refusal is a violation or negation of her consent which contradicts your original aim
But zero point going down the rabbit hole with you as you will only be repeating yourself as usual and the conversation will be going absolutely nowhere
Not even a masochist wants their consent violated …
You don’t care about no means yes relationships …
Again, burying your head, you refuse to put your subconscious mind into your conscious mind
Ecmandu,
True. A masochist may not want his or her consent violated but his or her low self-esteem would most probably do nothing to stop that from happening. They enjoy the hurt and displeasure that comes of it (after all, it is all they deserve) because they do not realize/see that they can have it differently. They have to do an entire “about face” to change their way of thinking about their selves.
So how do hyper empaths respond to these feelings of others ~~ with love, understanding and compassion or do they strike out against them exchanging insult and injury to insult and injury?
Is there a middle pathway?
Being a hyper empath, like anything, is a learning process.
You take on the emotions of others without realizing those emotions are not yours.
You eventually learn to distinguish
Hyper empath my ass man this guy is a proven sadistic rape advocate and if he wasn’t so ignorant of his own sadism Id think hes working for the CIA. He might still be, of course, as many workers for CIA are doing so in hypnosis. Its definitely clear that Ecmandu is under permanent hypnosis.
This OP is the very weakest thing hat has ever been presented as a “magnum opus”. But we can be thankful that it is weak otherwise people would be getting raped on account of it. A sick man. (whom Ive proven to be a pathological liar in the incel thread)
Jesus dude shut up! Are you trying to blow the only chance we might ever have for helping this man? You’re doing this all wrong. If you condemn his behavior, he’ll go on the defensive and become impervious to treatment. To help this man the psychologist needs to journey into the depths of the delusion, into the psychosis, with him, where they will navigate its dark pathways together.
The last thing this man needs is to be scorned and rejected. And you just rejected the crap out of him. Way to go, Einstein.
You two are kinda funny.
You’re both practicing more counter intelligence than I ever have.
I’m the only anti rape person on earth…,
If anyone else is, they are my students.
A no means yes relationship that involves sex, is interpreted by the subconscious a rape.
I teach people how to have yes means yes relationships. Most of them freak out, like you two …
The CIA employs over 800,000 people worldwide - an estimated 500,000 work in the US…
I’m not a CIA agent, or CIA drone
I’ll tell you something about the CIA that I happen to know. Agents get a nameless star on the wall. But there’s a code, “you sacrificed your life, and the benefit is that we’ll protect and favor you’re progeny and offspring, your family”
And that’s exactly what happens.
That’s why you see the children of agents as celebrities and whatnot.
They take care of their own down through the generations, and take this very seriously
Talking about violating consent violates my consent.
That’s not as clever as you think it is.
Phyllo is trying to use the same ‘trick’ in what he considers a serious way. He’s losing badly.
My reply to him was, “is that what you want someone to say to you when they smash your foot with a hammer?”