Where did it go?

Oh, come on.

After Jason left, the atheists got free rein in the religion forum.

Posters claiming “god experiences” were ridiculed. The “serious” arguments became routinely ad hom.

Is there a fix? Sure there is.

I always get a chuckle out of this text :

But the atheists were simply the antithesis of the deists. Both proclaiming is-isn’t without knowing shit one way or the other. And so the merry-go-round. The difference between dialog and diatribe isn’t given any thought and the perpetual machine of alternate realities grinds on.

If there is a fix, what might that be?

Moderating the forum so that a discussion can actually take place.

OK, but that forum was once here for any and everybody and it failed. “Under-used and difficult to moderate” I’m all for polite discussion, but how does one moderate when the participants have their own personal view of reality that may be in direct conflict with the reality of others? What are the boundaries and borders you think would be conducive to discussion?

“Under-used and difficult to moderate” doesn’t explain anything. It’s like saying that a restaurant closed because it didn’t have enough customers. LOL. Sure, but why didn’t it have enough customers?

There has to be some respect shown for the other posters and arguments have to stay within certain bounds.

As soon as the discussion drifts towards ad hom and bogus claims, the moderator has to nudge back on course.

For example, just because people disagree with you does not mean that they are delusional or mentally ill. Or people disagree with your take on morality and they are immediately labelled “evil”. That’s not reasoning or making an argument for your point of view. But often it’s all the discussion centers on. It seems that someone has to be around to say “that’s not how you talk to people”.

If someone comes into a religion forum as a believer, there will be other believers. There will be atheists. And, sure, there will be trolls bent only on huffing and puffing, on personal attacks, on disrupting the thread.

But what does that really have to do with any intelligent and respectful exchanges that one can have with those who share their own religious beliefs? Or have a different belief but are willing to engage in a civil and challenging exchange of views.

Only if the other participants are able to hack into the exchanges that you value and disrupt them would your experience be trampled.

Yes, it might be nice to have a sub-forum in which only believers exchange posts. But if finding others here at ILP who do have faith in one or another God or spiritual bent is your aim, there will either be folks like that you can exchange posts with or there won’t be. If there are then focus in on those exchanges and simply ignore the posts and the posters that piss you off.

Or am I missing something here?

Sure. If you have a thick skin and a lot of self-discipline, then you can ignore the disruptions. You can ignore the loud people horsing around in a movie theater. But are you going to keep going there if you know the jackasses will be there again?

Sure. Put them on “ignore” is the usual solution proposed.

Has it worked?

I don’t think so.

In a movie theatre those horsing around directly interfere with you being able to watch the film in peace and quiet. But here at ILP, how hard is it really to note those you either do not respect the intelligence of or deem to be assholes? I just simply scroll down to those I know are willing to engage in the sort of exchanges that appeal to me. As long as the idiots and the assholes can’t actually interject themselves into the exchanges that I do value, let them do their thing.

Instead, my concern here at ILP is the extent to which the idiots and the assholes come to prevail on all the forums. The Kids as I call them. And thus drive away those folks whose opinions [and intelligence] I do value. Like yours.

I have only ever put one person on ignore in all the years I’ve been here. And that was for about 15 minutes.

Sure, maybe my frame of mind reflects only my own experiences. But it just does not take me a whole lot of time or effort to separate the wheat from the chaff here. As long as “the idiots and the assholes” can’t disrupt the exchanges that I value, I do simply ignore them.

As no doubt those folks who think of me here as an idiot or an asshole will figure out a way to ignore me.

“The Kids” have prevailed.

The discussions are below a high school level.

I just googled the number of religion forums on the internet: “About 210.400.000 in .52 seconds” Those with belief systems aren’t being deprived access to metaphysical discussion because they happen to wander into ILP. ILP is open to ALL (most) comers and if all a believer wants is to deal with those who will confirm his beliefs, then he(she) will probably not be here very long.

Idiots and assholes… Well, maybe some of them. But some are just seekers who ACT LIKE idiots and assholes. Trolls excepted. It might be good to remember that almost all ILP members are personally evolving their ideas, their agendas, their language, etc. And so we have members who have barely started along the path and those who have almost completed their journey. A few, like me, are fossilized in amber. ILP, like it or not, is a reflection of our own evolution. Who we were and who we are might not be the same.

Look at your history here. Are there any posts you’d like to take back? Were you ever an idiot or an asshole? Hell, I’d have to take back 90% of all my drivel on this website. So maybe we should tolerate the seekers who don’t quite match up with our expectations.

Right. You can go somewhere else. Complainers can fuck off.

But I still feel sympathy for some complainers.

The tone and balance of religious discussion has changed across the internet, not just at ILP. The tone of all discussion has changed. The internet has changed society significantly, the set of alternatives to ILP has changed significantly, and the set of people who seek out sites like ILP has changed significantly.

I don’t mean to suggest that everything is done perfectly here or that we couldn’t do some things better. But it’s hasty to attribute issues with behavior on the forums to a failure of moderation.

What do you mean by “worked”?

I don’t think there is enough respect for other religions than Christianity on the religion forum.

It doesn’t stop or discourage the negative behavior. It lets the bozos roam around freely while putting a burden on others.

(But if that’s the environment that you want to create, then it has “worked”.)

Again, I think you overestimate the amount of control that moderation has on the environment. Point to a web community that doesn’t have some of its users calling others of its users, “bozos”.

Muting people has the benefit of filtering the environment to your preferences, without imposing those preferences on others. It is of course my intent to impose some of your preferences, since fostering depth and rigor of discussion is a goal we share, but ignoring the bozos works even where our preferences do not align.

People shouldn’t be insulting each other or harassing each other. I admit that I don’t spend much time in the Religion forum, and Dan is often on walkabout. I’ll start spending a little more time there to see what I can do.

The religion forum has two characteristics that will always generate heat. First, every believer has their own very personal beliefs. Anyone or any idea contrary to those personal beliefs is seen as a personal "attack"to be defended - vigorously. Secondly, no matter the personal beliefs, they are all anectdotal and not provable by any other method of inquiry man has ever invented. This just adds fuel to the emotional fire The best solution has already been offered: don’t get into the ad hom game. Disagree with anything counter to your personal beliefs, but just disagree and let it go. Play nice.

Some people don’t know how to discuss and argue in a forum setting. They need to be shown and taught how. That’s where a moderator comes in.
If nobody stops it then they will keep on doing it.

That’s just completely false. Philosophers have been making reasoned arguments and counterarguments for hundreds of years. Simply glance at the history of philosophy and theology.
This wiki page links to 31 pages of arguments:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category: … nce_of_God

And it’s not just ‘ancient’ history :

ttps://theconversation.com/arguments-wh … ists-75451

If you are focused on the idea of “proof” or “provable” arguments then read this :

plato.stanford.edu/entries/mora … #GoaTheArg

Phyllo,

People don’t know argumentation/discussion? True. Perhaps a questionaire or test for all members to show their proficiency level before they’re allowed to post? Would you like to write a short primer of the do’s and don’ts? I’m sure the moderators would love anything that would make their job easier.

I’ll stand by my “lack of proof” statements. The balance of your post only suggests the possibility of a god. I’ll agree that SOME people will accept that possibility as proof of a god. But for many of us showing possible isn’t proof of anything. We live in a world of infinite possibles, don’t we? As a skeptic, I need a little more than just possible. Without that little bit more, I’ll wait for that something that is more convincing than possible.

I suggest that the proficiency ought to be raised rather than excluding people who are not proficient at the beginning.

I don’t really want to be involved any more. I don’t think that there is anything interesting or productive going on.

I was around because there are a couple of open threads where I had posted and I didn’t want to leave without some closure.

I only responded to this thread because “the complainers” have some valid points and I thought they didn’t deserve another kick in the head.

Most things can’t be “proven”. Even science is based on showing that theories don’t work rather than proving that theories are correct.

People demand proofs from others but are their own thoughts based on proofs?

Depends on what you mean by infinite possibilities. There is a structure in place which limits the possibilities.

While you are waiting, people are making reasonable arguments that can be discussed. It’s not all anecdotal. It’s not all woo woo magical thinking.