Some men make women feel unsafe. Some men make women feel safe. It can go either way. A beautiful and attractive woman will feel more unsafe in general, since she is more lusted after than average or uglier women. However all women, of any beauty, must defend against unwanted sexual advances. There is a noticeable and significant lack of education in the u.s. about sex and gender in this regard. In the 90s, the debate was between schools teaching sex, parents, or church. The issues are still unresolved, and so, leaves children to figure it out themselves, which leads to mistakes as well. No system is perfect. I lean toward parents educating their children, since children are property of parents, but then again, a lot of parents are simply bad parents, single parents, poor, or stupid. The church has potential, but tend to be weaklings, obsessive, and delusional. So religion has flaws. And state schools are neglectful, and don’t want to broach sex since it’s too politically correct. Thus public schools tend to favor liberal approaches and teaching “all colors of the rainbow”, which is also wrong.
Sexual education is very important, because a boy ought to know the consequences of his hormones, and a girl ought to know how to screen males and mates better. Uneducated boys can harm girls, become violent, and mishandle their self-control (suppression). Uneducated girls tend to lose virginity sooner than others, make mistakes, can become depressive, jaded, and/or suicidal. Then there is peer pressure, boys among boys, bragging about getting laid often, or girls among girls, shaming each other for slutting around.
Ecmandu has a point, thus far. A predominant amount of “slut-shaming” occurs among girls. Girls are competing among each other too. Girls learn to control the sexual game from an early age, and use hedonism to your own advantage. It’s easy within civilized and suppressed environments, to manipulate males, using sex. But that makes the average female lazy, intellectually. Her intellect then focuses on social affairs to compensate, lacking a proper male idol.