You need to focus on what you can do, what’s within your power/control, and not obsess over things that are outside of your reach.
You can’t eradicate violence. It’s something that simply happens. Sooner or later, something is gonna come along and do something against your will. You can obsess over how “evil” it is but that won’t stop a thing. If you wanna stop it then you have to use violence yourself.
It’s in feminine nature to posit passive ideals.
Passive in the sense of describing ideal environments rather than ideal agents.
What is that supposed to mean, other than you taking this conversation off-topic? I get grief for asking simple questions which would enable the OP’s topic to continue?
I think that offensive…to destroy can also be looked upon as defense…to protect. It just depends on the circumstances. My defense mechanism to protect myself or others swims in the same waters as being on the offensive to destroy, so that I or others may live.
Preservation tends to fall on the side of defense. Now any gook can turn the phrase, “the best defense is a good offense,” into a lie they tell themselves so they can feel justified in their aggressive actions surely, but being overtly aggressive tends to be more of a male characteristic when it comes to violence.