Ah come on my fellow INTJ American buddy… gi me a virtual hug… go on
Does being British prohibit me from wishing you a happy Thanksgiving? who knew…
You do operate within strange parameters and on whatever assumptions you choose, don’t you… is this what is meant when they say a small town mentality?
No, that’s not my intention, as I’m a simply a rhetorician, and within the dialectic, the preferred subject of man is homo ludens, as it combines all the emotions and critical thinkings of a person. Did you not learn anything for my 10,000 postings of the lovheim cube? If all you ever feel is anger or surprise or fear or disgust when others derive something higher from my statements, it is more a reflection of your own limitations, and a opportunity to grow.
I use basic formulaic humor, look up “INTJ Sense of Humor” if you think it is just me, especially our “twisted sense of humor”. I don’t try to convert people from one type to another, so my goal isn’t to morph you, but rather to expand who we are. I choose my name carefully for this site, I’m not the one started the circus, merely the lion tamer.
You need to stop being a hard ass on rules and categorizations, where things belong and where they don’t, and just learn to take people as they are. Your not aware of how restictively limiting your approach really is, Trebeck.
I am not going to argue how you are wrong. I see the alpha male in you very clearly. You are natural leader material. You have a very strong sense of discipline
And people with that quality are the most suited for being in positions of power. But I still think you are just being you because you know of no other way. And
so while you are incredibly focused it still comes quite natural to you
You keep insisting on describing the opposite of me… of who I am… of my character, and attempting to assign traits to me that are not mine whilst denying me the vocalisation of my true nature: for example… my worst possible job in the world would be to teach… something that would be an ESFJs ideal job it seems, and I prefer acknowledgement of a job well done and not the constant show of appreciation that the ESFJ thrives on, but I guess you’ll justify those facts to suit your agenda.
My extroverted older sister is constantly horrified that I don’t interact with others for days or even weeks, but I… I am happy with that and do look forward to the days when I can go party and exhibit my underlying extroverted side, but those are days I have to mentally prepare myself for.
One day I made a decision… a decision to get out more and get out of myself more/externalise and see what life had to offer then/was about, and it’s not what or how I thought it would be but it was fun, but even then in those days I chose my circles and surroundings carefully so as to minimise any damage on my psyche and being, but I prefer living life at my naturally-intended pace.
Il est tres chic MM… trop chic pour mois… I have a need to be slightly disheveled, but I don’t know why… perhaps a rebel from school days of pristine uniforms and correct ‘everything’… perhaps.
Your favourite colour? red? I did notice the distinct lack of colour, but monochrome always looks chic regardless.
I thought the ESFJ with all the designer shopping bags and awful outfit was Taylor Swift…? hence my saying that she was an ESFJ in the MM Typing thread.
Google Search is showing that she’s an ESTP, but in any case I am not that outfit.
I don’t like ordering clothes online (don’t trust online advertising). Often, the online representation does not meet reality. This is true especially with clothes made in China (which is most of them). In fact, even brand name (‘original’) clothes are made in China, just as higher level fakes. I remember Spiegel used have some good stuff, now not so much. Really considering learning how to sew myself.