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Re: On Moderation

Postby MagsJ » Mon Oct 14, 2019 3:16 pm

MagsJ wrote:Over the years, some develop their own working style, that works for them, so incorporating the right amount of this and that, to make a tailored managerial style specifically for them, so a concoction of sorts.. if you will.

When being bullied in the workplace, exercising humility ain’t going to stop that bullying - you do not seem to be grounded in reality, as simple moral issues and dilemmas don’t seem apparent to you, and you even outright dismissed them.. in your haste to continue whatever your agenda here is with me.

This wasn’t my day job Silhouette, but a pastime, and pastimes don’t include having to endure negativity and cray cray.. dealing with such behaviour became tiresome, and I told people about themselves.

The end.

Re-read, and don’t get back to me. This matter is none of your concern, and my characteristics keep me in good stead just fine. ;)
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I haven't got the time to spend the time reading something that is telling me nothing, as I will never be able to get that time back, and I may need it for something at some point in time. Wait! What?

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Re: On Moderation

Postby Silhouette » Mon Oct 14, 2019 3:32 pm

Well a man can try to do good for someone.

Thanks for sticking through it for this long.

I can only wish you the best if you insist on denying the research, the logic, and even anecdotes.
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Re: On Moderation

Postby MagsJ » Mon Oct 14, 2019 5:28 pm

Silhouette wrote:Well a man can try to do good for someone.

I can only wish you the best if you insist on denying the research, the logic, and even anecdotes.

Lol

I think you need to work on your style and communication skills.. just a suggestion. I’m sure the data will come in handy at some point in time for you though..
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Re: On Moderation

Postby Silhouette » Mon Oct 14, 2019 6:29 pm

MagsJ wrote:I think you need to work on your style and communication skills.. just a suggestion. I’m sure the data will come in handy at some point in time for you though..

I absolutely agree :)

Thanks for the good advice, I will bear it in mind for the future.
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Re: On Moderation

Postby Mowk » Wed Oct 16, 2019 6:57 am

Sill, I think I see a little humility showing though. Your sincerity is the final judge.
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Re: On Moderation

Postby Arcturus Descending » Wed Oct 16, 2019 2:39 pm

Silhouette,


Yes, integrity is easier for me than humility,


I think that these two can be in harmony with one another ~ like "kissing cousins" or even closer.
Without humility and the capacity to truthfully understand who we are and what our limitations are, how can we act in accord with and stand by our own values and moral code in relation to others.
"Look closely. The beautiful may be small."


"Two things fill the mind with ever new and increasing admiration and awe, the oftener and more steadily we reflect on them: the starry heavens above me and the moral law within me."


“Whereas the beautiful is limited, the sublime is limitless, so that the mind in the presence of the sublime, attempting to imagine what it cannot, has pain in the failure but pleasure in contemplating the immensity of the attempt.”

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Re: On Moderation

Postby Fixed Cross » Thu Oct 24, 2019 10:42 pm

Humility can get you in a lot of trouble. I don't know how to quantify that but perhaps as much as or more even than pride can.

Pride will simply teach you humility. What you get is a vigilant pride, a care not to fall in hubris, a general respect for the earth, gravity, ones ancestors, and all that to which pride owes itself. But humility, when taken as a guideline, will teach you all sorts of wretched things you won't even know you're learning. First it teaches outward hypocrisy, then as a direct extension it teaches the same before oneself, and once you are obscured to yourself well enough you will learn whatever your weaknesses require to fester - anything to justify the humility.

Humility is the chisel to the pillars of pride - it serves a purpose whereas pride is the purpose, and thus the cause. Within the raw marble, cause and purpose are the same.
The strong do what they can, the weak accept what they must.
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Re: On Moderation

Postby MagsJ » Fri Oct 25, 2019 12:10 am

Be humble the masses cry, but they do not practice humility themselves.. the valued and the value-less have been separated, here in this thread, and they disgust me much.. the lieing value-less masses.
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Re: On Moderation

Postby Meno_ » Fri Oct 25, 2019 5:18 pm

As when the exchange of values sets it's rate, do we try to navigate in conflicting goods.
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Re: On Moderation

Postby MagsJ » Sun Oct 27, 2019 12:11 pm

Meno_ wrote:As when the exchange of values sets it's rate, do we try to navigate in conflicting goods.

..it’s all part of the game that the very-able play and that I’ve been dragged back into.. first by my own family back in Feb, and then secondly here on ILP.. despite my reluctance and protestations, to both.

If you breath, and are awake more hours in the day than you are asleep, then you’re in the game.. apparently, or you automatically get relegated.. by default, and I weren’t going to let that happen. :angry-nono:

Those that play a vile game or are too mentally unwell, for my moral tastes, are removed from my radar/arena/playground/line-of-sight etc etc etc., for I refuse to be the cause of any effects and actions that such types may incur. So definitely a conflict of differences going on, mais.. c’est la vie.
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