The sexual question need not be involved when using something as a tool. To shift back and forth is to use eachother’s time. Who has the upper hand? I suspect this is a question of intelligence, or perhaps rather, the ability to perceive some difference. I would like to think creation happens here - where all parties involved can’t perceive the difference
“all of the options are on the table”… Some thing I might hear a president say
I compare myself to a table
The table is useful, still
Both are perhaps more useful, naked
It is enough to say that I am being used as a tool in the here and the now - as is the table
So what if one of the legs is damaged? Spider veins? A chip off the old block? Its all dust
I guess given the premise “You have a pretty leg”, the question becomes “how/why is it ugly?”
merry christmas