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mannequin01 wrote:well that wasn't a very nice response.
mannequin01 wrote:Alright then.
Ultimate Philosophy wrote:
If the world refuses to give happiness to me why should I give happiness to anyone else
Because it's not the world that is refusing to give happiness to you. Happiness is relative to a state of being and is usually a byproduct of accomplishment, and other things. Your projection of self onto the world shows lack of understanding, which is rooted in a lack of responsibility. It could also be a lack of acceptance of nature in relation to developing a self-consciousness in an objective context, if you don't come to terms with self in relationship with world, then subjective emoting will only take place. One may even find it comforting and nurture an identity with it as a coping method, but the problem is that it stunts growth and prevents maturity, then overtime can backfire.
Once you have come to terms with what i just said then obtaining a particular state of being becomes a lot more easily accessible as now your thinking has a greater capacity of clarity. Then it just comes down to technique and strategy, and management. If one falls into ideals or is constantly rejecting what's there and expecting something else, then this will only threaten the state you desire to exist in.
surreptitious75 wrote:Ultimate Philosophy wrote:
If the world refuses to give happiness to me why should I give happiness to anyone else
The world is not responsible for your emotional well being. You are. Your mind belongs to you and only you. Not to the world
You want to be happy then go out and seek it for yourself. You have an ulterior motive whereas the world could not care less
mannequin01 wrote:Because it's not the world that is refusing to give happiness to you. Happiness is relative to a state of being and is usually a byproduct of accomplishment, and other things. Your projection of self onto the world shows lack of understanding, which is rooted in a lack of responsibility. It could also be a lack of acceptance of nature in relation to developing a self-consciousness in an objective context, if you don't come to terms with self in relationship with world, then subjective emoting will only take place. One may even find it comforting and nurture an identity with it as a coping method, but the problem is that it stunts growth and prevents maturity, then overtime can backfire.
Once you have come to terms with what i just said then obtaining a particular state of being becomes a lot more easily accessible as now your thinking has a greater capacity of clarity. Then it just comes down to technique and strategy, and management. If one falls into ideals or is constantly rejecting what's there and expecting something else, then this will only threaten the state you desire to exist in.
Reality must come first. Working with what is there through understanding and acceptance, then you can tailor to your relative capacity.
Everybody has their weaknesses and strengths. It could be a lot worse for you, you could be a child with terminal cancer, you could be an obese cow, or a spider in my mother's house that she recently stepped on because the culprit runs a muck in her kitchen..
P.s I gave you happiness when i intentionally lost to you when playing quake.
May I ask you this, have you ever broken walls in pure frustration and rage? If you want to win fights, try actually punching something instead of going to the gym.
So I ask you again, don't you know you sound like a Typical Human. You don't understand, probably' never will. Just keep talking out where the sun don't shine so you can get praise from the 105 IQ below you. No offense. Please don't ban me. If this is too offensive, I will edit out this message.
mannequin01 wrote:May I ask you this, have you ever broken walls in pure frustration and rage? If you want to win fights, try actually punching something instead of going to the gym.
Yes, when i was 18, then something happened to me, ya know, growing up. have you tried it?
So I ask you again, don't you know you sound like a Typical Human. You don't understand, probably' never will. Just keep talking out where the sun don't shine so you can get praise from the 105 IQ below you. No offense. Please don't ban me. If this is too offensive, I will edit out this message.
Definitely ban it!, cut it off and let's all ignore "her" and watch her slow miserable destruction..lols just kidding,
Listen here, yeah ok you have a crappy narrative, we all get it..but all i ask from your struggling existence is that you learn how to paint or write poetry, so we all may enjoy your inevitable demise.. that's the least you can do.
Please?
Advice from a celibate monk who cares nothing about love. Not advice I can use. So thanks but no thanks.
Ultimate Philosophy wrote:surreptitious75 wrote:Ultimate Philosophy wrote:
If the world refuses to give happiness to me why should I give happiness to anyone else
The world is not responsible for your emotional well being. You are. Your mind belongs to you and only you. Not to the world
You want to be happy then go out and seek it for yourself. You have an ulterior motive whereas the world could not care less
Advice from a celibate monk who cares nothing about love. Not advice I can use. So thanks but no thanks
Arcturus Descending wrote:Ultimate Philosophy 100Advice from a celibate monk who cares nothing about love. Not advice I can use. So thanks but no thanks.
One of the benefits and fruits of celibacy among the religious is/was an extension of love, agape love, to all beings. Celibacy, practiced for this reason, with this intention, doesn't make one cold and unfeeling. One is able to become more compassionate, caring, tender and understanding by way of using one's human sexuality in this way.
Do you actually think that human sexuality is solely about sex?
Surreptitious might want to spend his time alone but that doesn't necessarily mean that he cannot, does not, love in a true agape way.
What many of us call love is simply lust and trying to have our own needs met.
surreptitious75 wrote:And yet I am in a far better place psychologically than you are. Also what I said is actually true so it is not just my opinion. You can spend the rest of your
life being miserable and blaming everyone and everything for it or you can choose to do something about it. Now I am not saying it will be easy but if you
are not prepared to do anything about it it will not get any better. So you could try to change the way you see things because your negative state of mind
is primarily the thing that is causing you to feel the way that you are
Ultimate Philosophy wrote:
celibacy means the world doesnt care about your needs doesnt want your needs met and shits on your hopes and dreams
surreptitious75 wrote:l have no fear of death because it no longer bothers me and so it can take me anytime it wants. And my mental state
is demonstrably far better than yours since I do not expect the world to make me happy. Anyway this is not about me
but you and why you feel the way you do. And especially your need to blame everybody else for your problems in life
surreptitious75 wrote:Ultimate Philosophy wrote:
celibacy means the world doesnt care about your needs doesnt want your needs met and shits on your hopes and dreams
The world is not obligated to care about your needs. Celibacy doesnt mean that anyway and it definitely doesnt mean the last thing that you said
You want a woman then you got to go out and find one rather than posting how miserable your life is and why the world is not making you happy
ElfyandCool wrote:
gib wrote:She's also a Satanist.
^ Now you aroused?
AutSider wrote:gib wrote:She's also a Satanist.
^ Now you aroused?
Yuck.
-1
2/10.
AutSider wrote:gib wrote:She's also a Satanist.
^ Now you aroused?
Yuck.
-1
2/10.
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