They do? are these friends? acquaintances? stories you’ve read?
That is because it is not your mind experiencing the differentiation but the words - an internal desire is different from a seemingly-enforced compulsion upon one’s psyche.
Our desires are internal… they arise from within, these compulsions aren’t… they do not arise from within… I never said they did.
I didn’t think I wanted a dreamcatcher… I knew I wanted a dreamcatcher. It was the exact size and colour I was looking for, and both the stall holder and my friend said aren’t I going to buy it then, but I said not yet and that I would wait, but I had no idea what for - my friend wanted to then go, and the stall holder looked upon me as a time waster or perhaps a weirdo, but I repositioned us away from the stall and awaited for someone to come from the right of us, and the nanny ran right past us in the space I had just cleared and then further up and across to the stall.
There isn’t anything extraordinary going on here such that the only or best explanation is an extraordinary one. Ordinary explanations do just fine. What am I missing?
Well the stall holder and my friend thought that there was something extraordinary going on, but that’s because they were privy to/in on the unfolding scenario… everyone else was oblivious, and therefore not privy to, the unfolding event.