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i've decided to settle

Postby mannikin » Mon Feb 20, 2017 6:42 pm

so yeah as the title says, i have decided to make an effort to find someone to settle with...for some reason i'm incredibly attracted to women who are much older than me. I'm 30 now, but i want someone who late 30s, 40s and even 50s..


this got me wondering, why am i attracted to older women?
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Kriswest » Tue Feb 21, 2017 12:03 am

What was your mother like?
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby incorrect » Thu Feb 23, 2017 5:29 am

i will bring up something

i have always wanted a woman who looks like she's 20, acts like she's 40, cooks like she's 60

a friend of mine added "gums like she's 80" as a joke lol

age matters, it is felt
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Ultimate Philosophy 1001 » Thu Feb 23, 2017 5:41 pm

Sometimes I have a fetish for older women too. A delusional side of me hopes they are intelligent and reasonable, but as I said that is the delusional side of me hoping. Most of them just give stupid canned responses of "Oh you are too young for me" and aren't even worth a bother. Keep in mind they are the baby boomer's generation, a generation of morons raised on propoganda and media bullshit just like moderns. Some of them are very religious.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby mannikin » Fri Mar 03, 2017 2:18 am

Kriswest wrote:What was your mother like?


A good loving woman, couldn't be better really, damn near close to perfect. Her heart is pure.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Kriswest » Fri Mar 03, 2017 12:05 pm

mannikin wrote:
Kriswest wrote:What was your mother like?


A good loving woman, couldn't be better really, damn near close to perfect. Her heart is pure.

Such a dear woman would without intent set standards in your mind. Older women are probably part of that deep respect love and standard.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby mannikin » Sat Mar 04, 2017 2:24 pm

i do have a soft spot for older women.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Mictlantecuhtli » Sun Mar 05, 2017 5:57 pm

I honestly see no problem having a relationship with older women.Younger women don't act like real women anymore anyways. Older women are more authentic. Younger women are childish, immature, fickle, unloyal, materialistic, and sexually promiscuous. In other words, young or younger women are full of problems for any man. I feel sorry for the younger men that hook up with them. Sure, they're getting a great young piece of ass but all the problems that come with it isn't worth the bother. The younger female generations are garbage.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby mannikin » Sun Mar 05, 2017 7:08 pm

Agreed
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby AutSider » Sun Mar 05, 2017 8:27 pm

That's all good unless you intend to have a child.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Harbal » Sun Mar 05, 2017 9:12 pm

If the worst comes to the worst and you have to settle for a young woman, can't you just wait till she gets older?
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Mictlantecuhtli » Sun Mar 05, 2017 9:41 pm

AutSider wrote:That's all good unless you intend to have a child.

Younger women aren't even reproducing in vast numbers anyways. ...

Not much of a difference there.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Magnus Anderson » Sun Mar 05, 2017 9:49 pm

Age difference means difference in the amount of experience . . . not fun, especially if the woman in question has a disappointment streak with regard to relationships. Again, not fun.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Mictlantecuhtli » Sun Mar 05, 2017 9:51 pm

Magnus Anderson wrote:Age difference means difference in the amount of experience . . . not fun, especially if the woman in question has a disappointment streak in regard to relationships. Again, not fun.

Depends on the woman. Not all women act the same. That's an oversimplification.

There are some women that act like that however.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Magnus Anderson » Sun Mar 05, 2017 9:54 pm

Too much baggage. She will always be haunted by her past and you will always be her savior, I mean, her drug that helps her forget. Do you want to be a drug? Drugs never really make you truly happy.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby MagsJ » Mon Mar 06, 2017 12:18 am

Magnus Anderson wrote:Too much baggage. She will always be haunted by her past and you will always be her savior, I mean, her drug that helps her forget. Do you want to be a drug? Drugs never really make you truly happy.

Please keep this vague, not personal, to any one poster..
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Magnus Anderson » Mon Mar 06, 2017 1:40 am

What do you mean?
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby AutSider » Mon Mar 06, 2017 2:54 am

Mictlantecuhtli wrote:
AutSider wrote:That's all good unless you intend to have a child.

Younger women aren't even reproducing in vast numbers anyways. ...

Not much of a difference there.


Older women have a much higher likelihood of giving birth to a retarded child.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Mictlantecuhtli » Mon Mar 06, 2017 7:13 am

AutSider wrote:
Mictlantecuhtli wrote:
AutSider wrote:That's all good unless you intend to have a child.

Younger women aren't even reproducing in vast numbers anyways. ...

Not much of a difference there.


Older women have a much higher likelihood of giving birth to a retarded child.

Is that really true? Are there any valid statistics to elaborate such?

Still doesn't matter since both younger and older women aren't reproducing hardly anymore.

This is the era of being childless in the west.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby WendyDarling » Mon Mar 06, 2017 7:55 am

Down's Syndrome babies are more prevalent in older mothers. A heartbreaking condition for many parents for their child may never be capable of independent living and who will look after their child when the parents pass away? On the other hand, these children are some of the gentlest beings on Earth who are very generous with their love.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Magnus Anderson » Tue Mar 07, 2017 4:18 pm

They don't care about having babies . . . they don't care about building families . . . how can anyone care when adequate social conditions, those that would offer protection, are lacking? The only way to care is by dismissing long-term predictions.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby WendyDarling » Wed Mar 08, 2017 12:48 am

Magnus Anderson wrote:They don't care about having babies . . . they don't care about building families . . . how can anyone care when adequate social conditions, those that would offer protection, are lacking? The only way to care is by dismissing long-term predictions.


You lost me. Who's they? What are adequate social conditions? Care about what?
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Magnus Anderson » Wed Mar 08, 2017 11:19 am

"They" refers to people you are speaking to, to those who are attracted to mature women, such as mannequin and Joker.

Adequate social conditions refers to social conditions that make you stronger rather than weaker.

Nowadays, people are emotionally overwhelmed 24/7 so it's in their interest to weaken you in order to make sure you don't do something that will trigger them. For example, being realistic is discouraged whereas being delusional is encouraged.

"They" don't care about building families . . . because they won't survive the zombocalypse. In the past, there were many stronger people than us and they were far more numerous, and yet, they didn't survive.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby Magnus Anderson » Wed Mar 08, 2017 1:03 pm

There are several options:

1. you can resign and date mature women just for fun
2. you can resign and build your own family in the middle of the chaos ignoring the fact that you will go extinct
3. you can commit suicide
4. you can fight to restore civilization until you die

Mannikin and Joker choose 1.
Many choose 2.
I choose 4.

Of course, 4 is what I want to do . . . doesn't mean I am making significant progress in that direction.

But I reject 1 and I reject 2 and I am not really sure about 3.
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Re: i've decided to settle

Postby WendyDarling » Wed Mar 08, 2017 9:43 pm

What does restoring civilization entail?
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