There are 4 types of Romantic/Passion/Sexual Love.
Lesbian love, Penetrative love, and Masculine Penetrative love, and Self Love.
Let me explain because you don’t probably understand what I mean by this yet.
When a man falls in love with a woman, it is naturally Lesbian love but turns into Penetrative Love if he feels hurt by the woman.
When a man falls in love with a man it is Penetrative love but can turn into Lesbian love.
When a woman falls in love with a man it is Penetrative love but can turn into Lesbian love.
When a man lusts after a woman’s body only, or dominates or commands a woman physically, it is Masculine Penetrative love. But since love is feminine, this is not actually true love. It is more of love in the sense of, an abstraction, a logical love, because he knows the female and himself will enjoy it, he does it. Like how a farmer shoots an animal in a lot of pain, it’s not true love, it’s logical love, because he views it as the positive course of action to save the animal from pain.
Lesbian love, is when the male (or lesbian) falls in love with the actual Female and her essence. An example is a male who wants to kiss a woman.
It is called lesbian love, because it is not possible for a male to remain masculine while in this state of mind. If he is masculine in this state of mind he will not truly be into the kiss, but disconnected from it.
Penetrative love, usually is the result of stockholm and also this is the kind of love behind male homosexuality. Penetrative love functions when the organism creates a self-introvertive loop redirecting it’s energies back onto itself. It’s love energies are somewhat narcissistic but there is still a strong love field encapsulating the other (usually male.)
This kind of love can form after abuse, the organism cracks and it needs to be filled in order to fill the vacuum of energies. Physical appearance no longer becomes important, only that the organism is filled with new substance “love” is the important thing. It seeks to satisfy the other and please the other due to it’s self-objectifying tendencies, it perceives it’s functions as an instrument of the other which in-turn satisfies itself.
If this happens to a male by a woman, he submits to the female and will do anything for her and is unwavered by her abuse, a male harlequinn.
Masculine Penetrative love is when a man lusts after a woman’s body only but does not feel connected to her mind. Usually the woman must be corralled, dominated, and convinced for sex to happen and thus her default mechanisms are overridden, overruled, she is dominated thus the Penetrative love mechanism in the female is activated.
Self love is essentially Narcissism, in (Hetero) Males it is usually strictly non-sexual, but in Females it can be kind of sexual. Which is why female clothing is so sexualized and male clothing is almost anti-sexual trying to hide their sexuality.