For example, you are in a car, and you spill a coffee on her mat, and she says “Not cool. NOT cool. NOT COOL!!” And then you never hear from her again.
She takes it so seriously like it was death or something. The displacement of emotions.
Imagine that you have a squad of female soldiers, and you are escaping from danger, and then another squad joins in and helps you. While they are helping you, one of your soldiers misses a shot and accidentally shoots one of the people helping you. Then you would say “Not cool. NOT cool. NOT COOL!!” because it is a serious thing like death or something.
Except these days, people say it over minor trivial things, and hold a grudge on you over minor trivial things. It’s really sad.
For this reason, I believe that we should release dinosaurs on the streets, this way people would have an emotional balance, and learn to love each other, and use the appropriate emotions with each other, like uniting over a common enemy (okay trolling)
It is merely subtle fear. It is a part of the reign of insecurity so as to create one world socialist god. It is a sociological issue, not really psychological. Mental and physiological illnesses and mindsets are merely tools of that trade. If people did not feel helplessness, insecurity, and fear of the terrorists, why would they feel the need anyone’s protection?
Well sure we have created a society that is incredibly stressful, but the threats are all distant. We sit too much, do nothing with our bodies to much, and when we do do something it is often training of some kind. How fun is that? No play, no dealing with palpable danger. So the body is completely confused and the emotions are too. You exampel in the car is hard to read. Might have been the last straw in a pattern. IOW other doubts had already mounted up. Of course if that is the single instance of you making a mistake, she is loopy, or wildly overstressed.
Another way to come at it is we have all these unreal substitutes for life. Media instead of direct experience. twitter instead of a live interaction. Everything is mediated. A simple walk in the woods is vastly more satisfying, though most people are so overstimulated, they cannot even take in that walk in the woods. They are fucked up by movies ideas of how they should be and what reality is. Overstimulated but undernourished experientially. Welcome to the great shallows.
Perhaps they are the wrong people for you to be around Trixiebelle… I have a new friend and she is finally realising her boundaries with me… which has involved me swearing profusely at her whenever she crossed my boundaries until she stopped, otherwise she WOULD have been the wrong person to be around if she hadn’t stopped and the friendship would have ended.
If someone spilled a drink in my car, unless they were a good friend I’d known for a long time, I probably wouldn’t talk to them again. I think you’re reading too much into it trixie. It’s really simple. Some people spend a lot of money on their cars and some people are ocd about things being clean, and then…some people both spend a bunch of money on it and are ocd about being clean at the same time. So if you drop a starbucks mocha in my shit and it’s sticky and fucked up and dirty now and smells like coffee and hot milk in my car I would probably get really upset about it and not be your friend anymore. I mean what are you going to do next? Trip and knock over a lamp? Then I gotta clean up glass and get a new lamp? Then what? I mean at what point do you start taking some responsibility for your actions?