Men who are womanizers

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Re: Men who are womanizers

Postby Uccisore » Fri Dec 06, 2013 12:20 am

Moreno wrote:Promiscuous, while still a pejorative, at least focuses on frequency and scope. That would seem a fair gender neutral term.


And there's the answer to the thread. If you take away the confusing moral part, and just ask "Why do some men like to have sex with a lot of women?" the answer becomes so obvious that "Why in the world would you need to ask that?" immediately becomes a much more interesting question.
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Re: Men who are womanizers

Postby Moreno » Fri Dec 06, 2013 12:24 am

Uccisore wrote:
Moreno wrote:Promiscuous, while still a pejorative, at least focuses on frequency and scope. That would seem a fair gender neutral term.


And there's the answer to the thread. If you take away the confusing moral part, and just ask "Why do some men like to have sex with a lot of women?" the answer becomes so obvious that "Why in the world would you need to ask that?" immediately becomes a much more interesting question.

If you take the question literally, but if you take it as why some and not others, what is the difference, it becomes a bit more of a question.
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Re: Men who are womanizers

Postby Gamer » Fri Dec 06, 2013 9:39 pm

Womanizers don't love women, they are addicted to control. Men who really love and appreciate women are equally willing to sleep with as many women as possible, but they can't because in truly loving women you must also fear them. Their implicit power in sexual politics, their fierce empathic qualities, their finely tuned emotional microphones.

So keep in mind, is it not lack of respect for women that makes men womanizers, it rather allows men to be womanizers. Men who respect women would sleep with as many women as womanizers do, but they can't because they fear/respect women too much to ever be able to project the kind of confidence womanizing requires.

Also, ironically, womanizers, in respecting women the least, come to know women better, not thwarted by the thick lenses of fear and respect. The knowledge doesn't lead to deeper appreciation. It leads to better ability to manipulate.

Women should ask, rather, what they want: a guy who can treat them like an object or a guy who respects you so much that he can't possibly treat you like an object. The truth is in the middle, since all women are soul & object both, and both sides have needs. If your object side feels neglected you will long for the charm and confidence only a womanizer can provide. They are also usually handsome by process of elimination.

You might want to not be an object but might be in conflict here...you might want to be an object and not know it.

Men womanize because they don't fear you. Do you want a man to fear you as he loves you? If no, if you are nothing worth fearing, you are nothing worth loving, or you don't wish to be loved.
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Re: Men who are womanizers

Postby barbarianhorde » Wed May 22, 2019 5:18 pm

Pandora wrote:What causes men to become womanizers? Is it just a form of inflated masculinity/chauvinism, where the man sees female sex as inferior, to be used and manipulated as an object, thus giving him a (male) ego boost? There are also theories concerning father/mother past issues, but which one is it? Some say the absence of father figure causes a man to be unsure of his identity as a man (which causes him to seek external validation), and some theories point to a lack of mother's love. What need are womanizers are trying to satisfy and how did that need get there in the first place?

Or an excess of love so the guy needs two or three lovers at a time to have his space where he isn't a child.
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