Descartes: But I admit that long excercise is needed as well as frequently repeated meditation, in order to become accustomed to looking at everything from this point of view; and I believe that it is principally in this that the secret of those philosophers consists, who in earlier times were able to free themselves from fortune’s domination and who, despite sorrows and poverty, could rival their gods in happiness. For occupying themselves ceaselessly with considering the limits prescribed to them by nature, they so perfectly persuaded themselves that nothing was in their power but their thoughts, that this alone was sufficient to prevent them from having any affection for other things, and they controlled their thoughts so absolutely that in this they had some reason for reckoning themselves richer, more powerful, freer, and happier than any other men who, not having this philosophy, never thus controlled everything they wished to control, however favored by nature and fortune they might be.
I wonder if what Descartes is advocating is fairly called ‘the simple life’. I do agree that those who have control over their mind are richer, more powerful, freer, and happier than other man who don’t have the same control and go about reacting to desires and emotions. I try not to read too much into his words here, but it seems to me that Descartes isn’t saying we shouldn’t desire things, he is just saying WHAT we should desire; that being to control and understand our thoughts. Whether this is the right way to live life is uncertain to me, but I think it a pertinent lesson for humanity. Let’s ask ourselves how often we question our desires “Why am I pissed off right now?”, “Why am I happy right now?” - may sound silly, you would simply answer “I am pissed off because my friend was subtly hitting on my girlfriend” or “I am happy because I got a raise at work”, but do we ever take it any deeper, or do we ever try to see if our emotion is leading us on a certain path? For instance, many people would shoot their friend dirty looks in order to get the message across that he is not to hit on your girlfriend, some wouldn’t say anything, while others would go and punch him out. But the most important aspect of your desire hasn’t been viewed, the REASON you are pissed off is cause you are jealous. You are jealous because you FEAR your girlfriend may be taken away from you by your friends flirtation. So the girlfriend becomes a property issue. If this is so, I would re-evaluate one’s conception of love. But it could be that you are not jealous and just upset that your friend is hitting on your girlfriend…either one of the choices or one that I have not mentioned above are fine, but the real issue appears to have been missed again. We have friends because we are social creatures that look for advantage. In seeking advantage we need honesty, respect, trust, loyalty, etc from our friends - when one is lacking we become upset but never take the idea to it’s logical end. Maybe I am being overly pessimistic but to me that friend is not truly a friend if they are flirting with your girlfriend. So whether you hit your friend, tell him off, or don’t say anything, all of these should be followed by a discontinuation of friendship. Let’s also get something else clear, when I say flirtation I mean obvious interest in the other person in a sexual way. I don’t mean catching your friend smiling a little more than usual whenever he is talking to your girlfriend, some people may not even realize they do this. I am clarifying this, cause I don’t want to get it into anyones head that I drop all my friends the minute they cross me once, you would be surprised how forgiving I am, I also don’t want anyone getting it in their head that I meant something else and they agree and will now go and break all their friends faces and drop them as friends each time it appears that they have flirted with their girlfriend in any way. With everything I have said in this long drawn out paragraph is suppose to imply that the pertinent lesson is to understand and control our thoughts as civilized people should.
Maybe now I’m being overly optimistic, but I will let you decide.
What’s your take?