You have in idea called “home” which a lot of spirits hold to as a concept. For others it is abusive and draconian. You have tremendous flaky entitlement as a woman … Just because you are a woman, if anyone sends you to hell, you can send them there with no consequence …
We’re not even remotely working with the same pressures…
I have to send everyone to heaven just to deserve sex, all you have to do in life is bat your eyelashes
All males are born pure and innocent, like females. But when a male gets rejected 100 times by love interests, he starts to view hell as his destiny, has no interest in heaven, has no memory of ever caring about heaven. So helling himself isn’t really him helling himself. He is a victim of abuse.